Blending Rather than Balancing
Balance in your life centers your sense of self and grounds your energy in your body. Often times, we sacrifice our balance for the sake of others. If you are a helper or healer, giving away your energy for the “sake of service” to humanity becomes a work expectation. Without balance, this martyrdom can insinuate its way into all aspects of your life. Yet, a recent trend has emerged into our...
Intention Powers Your Life
Recently, I came across an interesting blog post about hope. In it, the author asserted that holding onto hope is a survival skill that keeps us locked into a pattern of waiting for something or someone to change. Essentially, hope hinges on external situations and disempowers us. Alternatively, she stated that being hopeful and having hopefulness allows for changes within. To bolster her...
We Cannot Take On Others’ Journeys
No matter how much we love or care for someone, we cannot take on their journeys. Although, I admit that for years, I relentlessly tried. In retrospection, I realized helping others tackle their life circumstances unconsciously enabled me to avoid focusing on myself. The unwavering support I gave was always at my own expense, even though I didn’t see it that way. You and Me can...
Celebrate All Forms Of Love
February 14 can be a triggering day for many people. The Hallmark-enhanced love fest morphed an innocently low-key holiday into a competitive free-for-all. In today’s working world, who received the best gifts, had the largest bouquet of flowers delivered, or dined the most fabulous restaurant dominates and alters the spirit of Valentine’s Day. Although the commercialization manufactured the...
Know No Bounds While Knowing Your Boundaries
When you know your personal bounds, you create healthy boundaries in your life and learn to adhere to them. Even though the catch-phrase “know no bounds” has a positive connotation, it isn’t always applicable. My catch-phrase became "know my bound(aries)” as I realized that having boundaries allowed me to clearly communicate to others how I wanted to be treated. Essentially, if you identify your...
You Create The World You Experience
Through the embodiment of your consciousness lens, you create the world you experience. If you view the world as a field of energy with enough for everyone's manifestations, you embody abundance consciousness. Yet, if you view the world as a limited place with a finite amount of energy for others, you embody lack consciousness. Realizing that there is no need to compare your journey with your...
Losing Sight of Your Own Way
No matter how much we love or care for someone, we cannot take on their journey. In fact, we are here focus on our soul development through the human perspective. Hence, throughout our lives, we sail through the waters on a learning excursion to discover who we really are. And, as we embark on our distinctive voyage through the ebbs and flows of life, we make choices that affect our route....
Honoring the Journey of Others
Honoring the journey of others allows them an opportunity to own their decisions without outside interference. While it is tempting to interject your will onto others as they navigate their own pathways, it disempowers their discernment. Rather than insert our control, we must allow for others to make their own choices. Furthermore, erecting and respecting boundaries amongst individuals...
Magic, Mystery, and Magnificence
2020 was quite a year. And, it started out in the same manner in which every new year starts…full of the possibilities of magic, mystery, and magnificence. Each year, as the calendar resets to January 1, hopeful souls around the world launch their unmanifested dreams and desires into the ethers. All the while, they eagerly anticipate which form their intentions will take. The...
The Midnight Garden of Your Soul
Accepting the darkness into my life became an eventual welcomed decision as the uphill battle of my career ending consumed me. But that took some time. In the beginning of the end, every night while winding down from the tumultuous day of trudging, I visited the midnight garden of my soul as I envisioned my Eden in my imaginings. Finding light in twilight Alas, in the...